Discover your partner's love language and learn how to communicate love more effectively. Whether it's words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time, or physical touch. Knowing each other's love language can lead to a more fulfilling and harmonious relationship. Watch now to unlock the secrets to a deeper connection with your partner!
Discover your partner's love language and learn how to communicate love more effectively. Whether it's words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time, or physical touch. Knowing each other's love language can lead to a more fulfilling and harmonious relationship. Watch now to unlock the secrets to a deeper connection with your partner!
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today's subject is going to be love
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language and so if we are all not
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familiar of what love language is if you
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don't mind uh
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actually well let's see
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um I think for me I I do a lot of I'm
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I'm a touchy feely person so um until I
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get on his nerves and he's like go on
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over
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there you doing too much you doing too
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much so that um quality time I like to
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give quality time um words of
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affirmation I know he likes words of
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affirmation so I try to you know boost
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him up let him know he's cute sometimes
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and stuff like that
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um
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yeah you don't have you to boost
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my you guys are definitely perfect for
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each
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other oh my mom yes yes yes I don't know
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I like to be
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touched
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yeah is this too much not at
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all you know I like spending the quality
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time you know I I I love all of that but
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I you know I get all
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that receiving gifts I'm not really big
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on that you know okay cuz anybody can
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get you a gift don't need a damn the
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thing you know that's just me so how do
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you show
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love what beside besides waking up in
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the morning and and pres and you know
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presenting yourself to the world how do
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you show your love I I just appear you
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know what I mean I just I'm just there
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I'm just there you know so serious guys
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no no I mean really I'm just overly
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loving like I I show my husband love
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every day he's saturated with it from me
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now he doesn't like all of that he
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doesn't like all that it's almost like
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okay all right kind of like you said
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you're you know you're doing too much
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you know probably very militant you know
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yeah I asked him last night I said can I
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sit on your lab he said not when there's
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a chair right there you know what I'm
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saying like oh my gosh oh my goodness
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you know I said okay okay all right you
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know but um yeah I like I like I like
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the physical touch I I really do I like
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the the holding hands the the you know
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know the the kissing and all of that I
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like all of that you know just the touch
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it's a pinch in your ass or something
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just something you know I like all of
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that okay you know what I'm saying you
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you like the pinches too huh y'all like
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the pinches if I have something to
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pinch oh wow okay all right I don't have
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as much as I used to but you know it's
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still pinchable okay all right I like I
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like the hugs from the back yeah
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warm and comy oh my gosh oh oh that is
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oh okay all right are you having a
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moment are you okay all right oh my
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goodness are the are the kiss on the
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forehead the kisses on the forehead on
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out yeah you like that it's something
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it's something personal about the kisses
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on the forehead makes feel special it's
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very
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personal what about you what what what
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about you know what what is your love
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language yeah how do I show it or what I
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would okay well come with both I mean
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how do how do you show it and how do you
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want it to be shown oh my goodness how
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do I show it my God how do I not um no
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but I'm really big on uh love language I
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love I love giving love you can ask my
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whole family at this table um I just I
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mean you know quality time is a big one
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for me acts of service that's just when
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you know you just do something for no
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reason I mean somebody doesn't have to
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ask um you know it's just maybe
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something you're at the gas station and
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you just know that their favorite candy
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is
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reesei just just do something random
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many Reese you
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know something something totally random
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and um receiving gifts um I'm a I'm I'm
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a big Gift Giver um and to be honest and
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it's and it's not to it's not to impress
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I listen I've had listen I have had to
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learn a lot of my lessons but uh gift
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giving has never been a a lot of a lot
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of women sometimes maybe show their love
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or you know like you know these men
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these days you know buying you know
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their girls all these bags and all that
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and fellas just to let you know that's
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not going to make them love you anymore
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but keep doing what you're doing um but
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um but giving gifts for me is actually a
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gratification thing it's not a trying to
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impress it's not trying to gain some
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love um it's the way that I show love
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and basically when I give a gift that's
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basically letting you know I'm paying
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attention just know that I'm paying
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attention I hear you so like little
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things like that that's how I show it
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for me um I'm sure it's a story for a
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lot of people but we're going to say
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this for another day um our acts of our
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acts of love is not always received you
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know sometimes it's more given than it
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is received but I would just love IGN
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ackowledgement just say you know hey
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babe I see you you know where
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affirmation is is yeah yeah just like
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you know I see you you know I appreciate
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you man up I appreciate you go so far so
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so so so so far or I see that you're
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changing and uh that should be aot that
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should be actually a love affirmation
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for I mean a love language for both
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sides I think both parties would like to
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know when they're doing something right
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yeah when they're doing you know
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acknowledging acknowledging is a big one
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um yeah that's my that's my I love
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language okay all right that sounds
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pretty good you know that sounds really
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good I don't know so what some of your
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guys' love languages what do you guys do
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what what what what do you expect or
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what would you want for your partner to
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be like how to you show it go ahead and
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share it with us we would you know we
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would like to know maybe you guys can
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tell us something teach us something I
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don't know but yeah definitely you know
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shoot us an email and and tell us how
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you what's your definition of just to
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want all these things you know you want
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the quality time you want the physical
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touch you want the acts of service and
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you know absolutely absolutely so yeah
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please please let us know please let us
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know about that y'all we would like to
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hear that absolutely all righty any
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ending words ending
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advice anything no anything at all I
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don't have anything I I will have to
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give a shout out to my boo out there cuz
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he's really he's pretty good at Crossing
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off most of these on here especially you
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know giving gifts he's he's real good
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about that so yeah
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okay shout out to
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an a another shout out to my pop my dad
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my husband he's
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adorable he's he's just adorable you
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know Po's definitely a quality time acts
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of service
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you never know what Pop's going to do
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but you know it's coming from a
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wonderful place so shout out to my dad
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my pops he's a good man good man very
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much so I adore him he's good he's
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always there always always there you
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know
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he yeah he he's always there so he's
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he's good I I couldn't ask for I am
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blessed I am blessed yes very much so
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they don't I don't want to say it like
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you know they don't make
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men like that anymore you know but when
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you have a good man when you have a good
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man like that it's like oh my gosh you
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know just like Uncle Larry and
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you my brother my brother my brother
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he's fabulous and also shout out to the
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to the women and the men who who
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understand the love language if you're
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in a relationship and you fully
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comprehend this and acknowledge this
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never ever stop I don't care if you've
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been together for 10 years 50 years
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years never stop giving that that that
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love language that that's what's going
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to keep you guys that's what's going to
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keep you guys going um keep your ground
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and I can't wait to get that consistency
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um but until then I'm going continue you
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know showing My love language the way
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that I do but if you're out there doing
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that do never ever stop and remember it
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doesn't always have to be the big stuff
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like the little the little stuff you
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have no idea this and I know women we
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expect for some you know what what men
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may want but really at the end of the
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day it's the personal stuff just you
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know just letting us know that that
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you're there that you're present that
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you're you know so it doesn't always
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have to be the big stuff it's it's the
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little stuff that really goes farther
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but do you think it's also good to to
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let that person
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know what what maybe you need in that
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relationship you know it might be good
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just to sit down and say you know hey I
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just want to share this with you let's
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talk you know I really I really need
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this from you no absolutely right is
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that is that okay to say that absolutely
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every everything that you need and want
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please let that be known or what you
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expect please let that be known in the
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beginning that that that's very very
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very important you know let somebody
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know how you want to be loved but you
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know sometimes you know I mean just in
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my own experience my own relationship
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you know sometime it's a tradeoff right
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you know because and what I mean by that
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like you you know my husband you know
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the gifts the the the acts of service
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the acts of service the quality time but
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not so much touchy
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feeling you see what I'm saying you know
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and and you just have to look at that
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and
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say I know he loves me right you know I
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know she loves me you know because they
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do this this this this this is just not
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what they you know they don't they don't
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like all that you know you know what I
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mean that that's what I meant by you
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know a trade-off you know sometimes know
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your person you got to know your person
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that's your decision if you can handle
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or not someone doesn't like the touchy
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Philly but they show you that quality
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time and that acts of service sometimes
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things can outweigh or you know
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sometimes things can can weigh out now
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you now you can't give up too much you
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know like if you if you meet somebody
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you're in a relationship with someone
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and they're not doing any of those
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affirmations okay you see what I'm
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saying that's a problem you know I mean
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there's physical touch there's no
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quality time you know it's all about
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that individual only Act of service huh
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no I'm saying if you're not getting none
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of that yeah yeah none of that that's
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not what I'm talking about when I say
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tradeoff I mean you're just giving up
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everything then you mind being in Rel
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then you might being in relationship if
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they're not doing anything you might be
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in a relationship by yourself I hav
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unfortunately been in one of those
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before absolutely so I it's happened but
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you got to you know look and if they're
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not doing anything to help you
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show you know you shouldn't waste your
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time don't waste your time don't waste
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your time and don't be one of those
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thinking all thinking all it's going to
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change you know cuz people are in 5 10
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20 years and the change has never
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happened right you know and you could
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have been spending that time with
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somebody to give you all those
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affirmations of of love that you wanted
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or at least a few hold your partner
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accountable that's right hold your
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partner accountable absolutely
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absolutely okay that was a good chat
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yeah that was a good chat all right so
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if you guys you guys you know have any
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Love Languages or what have you just
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email us at vent
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365 family atgmailcom and we'll check
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that
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outow yeah comment Bel definitely
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comment below please we want to hear
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from you ask questions just just ask us
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anything let's let's talk about it like
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I said you you got you got a friend in
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us so you're are ventes you're V give us
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some stuff to talk about whatever it is
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that you want to vent maybe you can vent
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to other people whatever just just write
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it in we'll talk about it okay all right
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well everybody have a good one family
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have a good week and we will see you
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guys next week okay bye
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